Posted by Farkus on January 4, 2007, at 7:40:46
In reply to Upset yet again, posted by Deneb on January 3, 2007, at 23:57:41
It is difficult to not separate a behavior from “us” as who we are. I believe another CAN accept us without being fond of some of our behaviors. Thus, I don’t feel rejected or unliked as a person when another says they won’t tolerate a certain behavior from me. It’s complicated and maybe it only makes sense to me.
Not to belabor the point or plow an already gone over field, bottom line, TO ME: the recent events appeared to me to be about a behavior and accountibity and yes, people were very angry.
Perhaps as time goes by things will resolve and the level of upsetness will decrease.