Posted by Dinah on November 27, 2006, at 16:24:01
In reply to Re: I'm sorry I made people upset, posted by Deneb on November 27, 2006, at 15:07:09
You aren't evil, Deneb. It does matter what you feel, and I still support you.
I don't hold grudges, but I don't know if it's useful to think of others as holding grudges so much as actions having consequences. It isn't holding a grudge to be self protective.
The good news is that because actions have consequences, repair of ruptured relationships is also possible. There was a time when a lot of people on this board were wary of me because of my actions here. I was more than a bit volatile. But with time, many of them learned to trust me again.
You may need to give people a bit of time, and space if they need it. But people here want you to feel well, Deneb. They want the best for you. They may be angry, but people get angry and get over being angry.
Nothing is permanent in life, Deneb. It may feel that way, and heaven only knows I have trouble remembering that things aren't always the way they are now, and I don't always feel the way I do now. So I'll remind you, and you can remind me from time to time. Ok?
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