Posted by TexasChic on April 7, 2006, at 19:48:03
In reply to Sounds to me » TexasChic, posted by wildcard11 on April 7, 2006, at 18:53:28
> like jr.high school w/ her throwing the book and stomping off? maybe she was having a really bad day??? regardless, these girls prob. act the way they do b/c they are jealous and/or feel threatened by you...
I have considered it might be the blonde hair and big boobs. But I'm overweight so I always feel like that cancels it out. But I have to admit, they do seem jealous of me hanging with the guys.
>i think you handled this week better than i would have. i have a mean streak that Crazy T gave to me..lol j/k
It was all I could do not to retaliate. But I knew that if I was to behave professionally, I couldn't do that. And after being fired a couple of years ago, job security is VERY important to me. I decided I would be the adult, reasonable one. If I was to behave rashly, it would make me look less trustworthy. My supervisor reinforced this in our meeting, warning me not to let it get so bad that I lose it, because then I would be in trouble too.
If I learned anything from my work experiences its to document EVERYTHING! Type up a list of names, times, quotes, witnesses, and any physical proof you can get (like pictures or printouts). Not only is this smart, it impresses the hell out of management, especially if its not really a corporate environment.
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