Posted by alexandra_k on December 30, 2005, at 20:39:20
In reply to Re: sorry about that » alexandra_k, posted by Damos on December 29, 2005, at 15:10:57
> At the very simplest level maybe it's just because you're leaving, and there is a fear that you will never be back, and this triggers 'their' stuff. So they feel the need to try extra hard - which just has the net effect of making things worse. Dunno, maybe.
yeah. maybe. i guess they are trying in their own special unique way :-( but... i have nothing in common with them. we don't have any shared pleasant memories. and we don't seem to be able to 'just be'... and so... it is hard.
but hard for a lot of people i guess :-(