Posted by Voce on November 26, 2005, at 22:53:45
In reply to Re: Please tell me there are men who....(trigger), posted by spriggy on November 22, 2005, at 13:21:03
Thank you Spriggy.
I have trouble trusting God by the same account. Calling God "father" is really conflict ridden. And I am angry at him for creating in me a huge need for fatherly affirmation, and then yanking different father figures out of my life.
My fiance gets all of that projected onto him sometimes, poor man.
I like what you said about trusting your husband until he gives you a reason NOT to trust him.
But I sometimes think I am looking for reasons not to trust him. Like, he doesn't call when he says he will, or forgets to do things that I request, or can't remember facts that are important to me. That's dumb.........he's not perfect. However, we've never had a breach of trust so huge that it took days to get over.
I am luckier than most. But I will never get another dad, and my fiance will never fill that need, nor should he.