Posted by JenStar on October 17, 2005, at 10:54:27
In reply to I think you express yourself just fine! » Nickengland, posted by wildcard on October 17, 2005, at 4:24:34
I think you express yourself just fine too, and I have never had any doubts about your education or intellect. :)
Have you ever seen the Seinfeld episode with the "bad breakup" guy? He makes up weird insults to his ex-girlfriends to make them crazy. For example, he told a woman Elaine that she had a "big head" even though her head was normal size. Then she started obsessing about it, and thinking her head was gigantic, even though it was not. But this guy was able to find a point and press it and make her start worrying about something.
I think that people in 'real life' too sometimes try to push buttons or find a way to make others worry about something that isn't 'real'. They select something, make an insult, and HOPE that we'll start worrying about it. They try to make us paranoid about something.
Anyway, I just wanted to offer my support to you and say that I hope you recognize that if this happens, that the person who says it is full of hot air. :)
take care!
JenStar
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