Posted by messadivoce on May 30, 2005, at 13:02:22
In reply to Moral question...please..I need answers..????, posted by jay on May 30, 2005, at 7:30:41
Hmmm, I don't know if my answer will be popular, but I am going to have to say that according to MY morals, it would be wrong. Of course, your morals may be different and if you don't see a problem with it then I of course can't impose anything I believe on you. But it's just my opinion that maybe this "fling" may not do anything to help your social-phobia--if a REAL relationship is what you crave in the end.
Of course I understand the part about basic needs--and I'm really sorry to hear how frustrated you must be. As a single woman, I just wouldn't see a guy who does that kind of thing as a candidate for a steady relationship, though. Like I said, if that's what you're really wanting in the end. And of course there's the previously mentioned risk of you getting hurt in the end anyway. I just don't think human beings are programed to have one-night stands like that with no emotional baggage.
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