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Re: Moral question...please..I need answers..???? » jay

Posted by Tamar on May 30, 2005, at 8:55:42

In reply to Moral question...please..I need answers..????, posted by jay on May 30, 2005, at 7:30:41

> OK...so I am thinking of doing something really naughty. There is a website where you can hook up with woman, in my case, and have quick sexual flings with no strings attatched.(NO..it is NOT some call-girl thing...it is real women who just want, well, the sexual flings.) I guess I could go out into a bar and do the same thing, but my social-phobia holds me back. Like, if I can't have a relationship right now, just having some 'physical enjoyment' should do the trick....non...oui? Like, my 'basic needs' NEED to be fullfilled! Anybody else do this? I know, I am in the minority being a single guy on here, but I JUST don't know. At 35, I am still at my peek...Hmmmphh.
>
> Signed,
> "Not gettin' any.." in Canada

Why do you feel it’s naughty? If it’s not illegal, and no one’s getting hurt, where’s the problem? (So long as you’re SURE it’s not a call girl thing.)

I wasn’t sure from your description whether you would meet these women in person or whether you’d have online sex only. Obviously if it’s a case of one-handed typing there are fewer issues than if it’s about real physical proximity.

The only question I’d ask is: will it really make you feel better? Yeah, you’d get your rocks off. But might you find yourself wanting to ask one of these women for her phone number, wishing you could take things further, and feeling disappointed if she doesn’t seem to be interested in you as a person?

I think if you’re one of the people who can easily distinguish between sexual intimacy and emotional intimacy then you will probably find the relief you’re looking for. But if you’re one of the people who strongly prefers to feel an emotional connection during sex, then you might end up feeling hurt. Of course, you might decide that risking hurt is worth it just to touch a real woman…

Just my two cents. I hope you find a way of getting some that brings you the fulfilment you need.
Tamar


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