Posted by jay on April 8, 2005, at 17:26:58
In reply to Being ignored, posted by ed_uk on April 8, 2005, at 16:53:03
> At the moment, several of my friends are ignoring me and I don't know why. How do I cope with this?
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> One of my friends says that he wants to be left alone. I feel very sad, I don't know what to do.
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> Ed.Hi Ed...well I doubt this will help but I wouldn't/am not ignoring you. I do very know what it is like, though.
Last X-mas, I *had* a friend who said I was "..too depressing to be around.." and "..stressed him out.." so he didn't want to bother with me after 15 years. Mind you, he really was a bit of a selfish dork, and really cared-a-less about me. And then there is another one who thinks he is too, ummm, "cool" to hang around with me (because he has a 23 year old girlfriend and he is 35, but I got him in the end..because he has a "Dilbert" brain-less type of job...hahahaaa!..)
Anyhow, with this lovely mental illness, it may be a good time to look for new relationships, ones that are meaningful. Don't waste it on those tacky people who get cheap thrills...go the high road, into the range of light.(That last phrase thanks to a book I am reading, called "Traveling Music" )
Best to you bud..and don't let the bastards grind you down! (Dr. Bob, I don't see how bastard could be a swear word, so please forgive me.)
Jay
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