Posted by woolav on March 10, 2005, at 1:12:31
Hello, sorry If this is long...I have been married 9 months. Everything has been great until tonight. My husband called me at 4pm, sometimes he works late, usually not past 8 though. And I called his cell at 9pm when i hadnt heard from him. (very unusual-he calls me like 10 times a day) he wasnt answering or calling me back after i kept calling until about 10:30. I am worried at this point, he works in a very bad area of town and is a branch manager. They have about 30k in a atm machine inside the building. So, freaking out, I drove downtown and saw his car and his new employee's car outside sometime after 11pm. I called another co-worker who hadnt heard from him either. So, after just about kicking the door in at the office he was supposidly in. I began thinking he & his new "girl" were shot to death or something inside. I called his boss, who in turn sent the police out there. Well, about 2 min. before the police show up, (i was parked across the street) I see him leave the building and get into his car. I drove over and blocked him to see if he was ok. He just told me to go home. he speed off and i got trapped with the police. I told them everything was ok since my husband wasnt murdered or anything. So, he calls me on the way home and freaks out because I called his boss in the middle of the night and he is going to get in trouble, i asked what he and this girl were doing there at that hour and he says they and some other ppl who he didnt tell me their names went out drinking, and then went back to the building. Okay, so, this is the first time he didnt call me all evening, let alone coming home after midnight on a workday. He says he wasnt having an affair, but there was only his and her car there and like he told me there were 2 other ppl with them. I have trusted him and he has always treated me right, but now I dont know what to believe. I know i prob. got him in major trouble with his boss, but i really thought the police would break the door down and find him dead. I dont know what to make of this situation. I cant sleep its now 2am and I have to work early tomorrow, but i am very confused. could he have cheated? or should i believe his story? I had a really bad first marriage and dont want to believe he would hurt me since he has been so great for the 2 yrs we have been together. I dont know what to do or think right now.
Deeply hurt & confused,
Sandy :(
poster:woolav
thread:469088
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