Posted by alexandra_k on December 8, 2004, at 19:32:48
In reply to Re: I do need to learn about tact, however..., posted by lostforwards on December 8, 2004, at 18:00:16
> Sexuality is a touchy issue anyway, since it's so personal.
Yes indeed. I do wonder whether Dr. Bob's intention in telling us to stick to relationships was to stop this thread before it escalated to the point that it has...
> I didn't mean to offend you
You did not offend me at all!
>how I felt is how I felt.
Indeed, and I think that your response to my posts was understandable, and that is why I regret my posts in hindsight.
>I don't think I objectify people in the day in reality, despite looking at porn.
Yeah. I think that the latter would be much worse. And worse still would be insisting on viewing people as objects to the point where it prevents viewing them as a person (oh, the plight of a beautiful person! - something I don't have to worry about, which I am thankful for).
I don't think it follows that people who view porn objectify the human beings they encounter face to face in their daily lives. I don't think it follows that people who enjoy fantasising about certain things would actually enjoy doing certain things. I don't think viewing porn makes you or anybody a 'bad' person.
It is just that it is not to my personal taste.
Thats all I have to say.
And that is all I should have said!
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