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Re: PLEASE READ: i need help and to know i'm not a » tampagirl70

Posted by littlep24 on June 17, 2004, at 0:58:58

In reply to Re: PLEASE READ: i need help and to know i'm not a, posted by tampagirl70 on June 16, 2004, at 11:57:53

Tampagirl,

I know what you are feeling. It is a quarter to 2 in the am and I am up posting because I can't sleep due to strife I am going through with my husband right now. He has supported me through 10 years of depression, however, he has also emotionally abused me by trying to "help" me since I do everything wrong and then he tells me how to do it he is just helping. His form of help only makes me resent him. I told him I wanted a divorce about a month ago we decided to give it six months. We have two young children and the thought of being on my own makes me sick to my stomach. I wonder if things would be ok if I wasn't so depressed or would he still want to control me. ANOTHER BIG QUESTION IS, YES THERE ARE OTHER MEN OUT THERE BUT COULD THEY DEAL WITH MY ISSUES? My depression is not getting better. My therapist assures me it is due to being married to someone who wants to fix me instead of be there for me. I really do feel for him living with someone who is depressed is alot of work, hell I don't like living with myself. I too have lost that loving feeling there is no passion we have a friendship right now that is not even working. This isn't the first time we have talked about divorce. We are both trying but our marriage is missing alot of things. It is so painful to sleep in the same bed and be on the opposite sides. I just don't know if I can regain feelings for him. But I don't want to be in a marriage just for the kids sake. They can tell there is no love there. We actually fight less now. He has told me that he has realized he is just stuck with me. As well as other hurtful things. He feels hurt because he thinks my actions are deliberate instead of understanding they stem from the depression.

Sorry for the babble I tend to rant.


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