Posted by Angela2 on June 4, 2004, at 16:15:59
In reply to What is wrong with me???, posted by TexasChic on June 4, 2004, at 12:30:46
I can see that this is important to you. My best guess is that your friends do care about you or else they wouldn't be asking you to go smoke or do things like pick up lunch. I used to feel the same way though. in high school I had a group of friends and on the weekends they would make plans to go to the mall and whatnot. And I'd be like: "can I come?" And they'd be like, you don't have to ask you are part of our group. But for some weird reason I felt separated from them, like something made me different. Looking back on that, I see that it was all in my head. If you are like me though, you like space from your friends. This doesn’t mean that they aren’t your friends anymore, it just means that doing things alone without them is fun.
Why do you think they are ignoring you? Is there something you have to say that they are blatantly trying not to listen to? If so, you should tell them there is something on your mind that you'd like to say.
About your coworker who didn’t answer you, I don’t know her so I can’t say why she did that. Is there something going on between you two like a tiff? I read your post about your weekend. Does that have anything to do with her behavior? Was she deliberately ignoring you? Or was she just busy? To make the situation go smoother, and to make it clear to you whether she was ignoring you or not you could have said “Are you busy? Do you have time today to look at this?”
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