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Re: Why ask someone else? (possibly...)

Posted by Jai Narayan on April 11, 2004, at 14:41:35

In reply to Re: Why ask someone else? (possibly...) » Jai Narayan, posted by 64Bowtie on April 11, 2004, at 13:04:05

> Possibly, because that's what we do. We wait for approval. We find our social balance point in some impossible place; between someone else's ears! Their brains ain't any more efficient and accurate than our brains, yet we trust 'em first. Darn, that sounds like a bad idea! So why do we do it? why do we trust someone before we trust ourselves?
>
I do the same darn thing and wanted to know why others do it too.
I am working on this topic in therapy right now.
I end up feeling like I'm on a roller coaster....
someone says good stuff then someone else is critcal me...
and I go up and down.....
my stomach can't stand it!


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