Posted by Fallen4myT on April 4, 2004, at 20:24:48
In reply to Re: Fallen » Fallen4myT, posted by Dinah on April 4, 2004, at 8:42:00
I honestly don't know Dinah its like a catch 22 situation sadly...plus I need his medical insurance
> I'm kind of in the same place as you are, regarding work not husband. I don't like it. OK, I hate it. But I doubt my ability to find another job that fits my special emotional needs (how's that for saying one where my instability won't get me fired) and that will pay enough to go to therapy.
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> But every once in a while a still small voice asks if it isn't true that the majority of my anxiety is *caused* by my job, and if I found one that wasn't so stressful I wouldn't melt down so often or (heaven forbid) need as much therapy.
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> Could the same thing be true with your husband? That you wouldn't be so anxious and would be more able to work if you were away from a bad situation?
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> Of course, having that insight hasn't caused me to quit my job, and in fact I'm heading off there now. :(
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