Posted by 64Bowtie on March 27, 2004, at 14:58:23
In reply to Help with office drama!, posted by gardenergirl on March 27, 2004, at 14:16:09
> What do we do? How do we get past our hurts and personal feelings as well as learn to communicate with A in a way that is not going to induce more accusations or arguments?
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<<<Go out-of-body... from that position you know there is trouble but feelings of pain (pain is real - the misery and suffering are optional) are not mucking up the vision of what to do... Also, mix feelings and logic to assemble a strategy full of options and caring. With the pain out of the way (by out-of-body) your path(s) to resolution will be clear.Drop a copy of Wayne Dwyer's new book about intensions and a copy of Monty Robert's, "Horse Sense for People" onto "her" desk. Be willing and available to share responsibility for the "fubar" condition of the drama-trauma.
That said, If I were fettered with being office manager, "A" would get a three day supension in hopes of her seeing her complicity more clearly! She made a common mistake of not checking the printer for paper stock. I do it. I don't get mad at myself or anyone else when I do it. Lucky for her I'm not office manager, I guess.
Rod
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