Posted by DaisyM on February 12, 2004, at 10:37:57
In reply to Re: Ooops... » DaisyM, posted by Karen_kay on February 11, 2004, at 14:53:17
Karen,
I'm sorry for "yelling". My worry got in the way. It sounds like you have a handle on how much you can tolerate and are keeping yourself in this range. Just go slow, ok?You've said often how much you loved your dad. It is OK to still feel that, and to have some good memories. In fact, I think it is essential. I struggle too with reconciling these feelings of I should hate him but I don't...it is so complicated!
I use to sleep with my sister too...she is almost 10 yrs younger than me. I've just figured out recently that I was protecting her. I thought I was just afraid of the dark. :(
Please know that any frustration with your Therapist that comes across from me is really about concern for you.
I worry. It's what I do.
Daisy
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