Posted by Dog on December 15, 2003, at 16:07:49
In reply to Re: really long post!, posted by DeeJay on December 15, 2003, at 15:34:14
hmmm, a "soldier boy", huh? well, what did he say... did he say he wanted to see you again?...
the thing is, once you make a committment to your present beau, you can't go back and search for lost loves and be always wondering... Take care of it now! Call "soldier boy" or email him and tell him the truth... this is your life, Deej, and you can't go back once you make that committment to someone else...it just doesn't work that way... you end up not only hurting someone else, but yourself as well...i would recommend you explore it before its too late...
incidentally, i am not recommending you be devious either, but you are not promised or engaged now anyway, are you? if so, then you better get these other things out of your head or at least talk them out with him...harboring fantasies is OK, i think, but there is alot of pain that can get in the way if you don't see about it now...
the thing is about a soldier/sailor is they have to be gone for long periods of time, so there's a whole 'nother can of worms involved there...
Dog
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