Posted by kara lynne on August 15, 2003, at 12:38:49
In reply to Re: Don't touch that phone » kara lynne, posted by fallsfall on August 15, 2003, at 8:23:18
fallsfall,
This is great. You are like the mother I never had (and I mean that in the best of all possible ways). I went to her when I was 17 and told her my boyfriend had been physically abusive. She just looked at me, smiling helplessly.So two sentences about moving on. That's his greatest fear of course, my moving on. I haven't said anything definitive to him since I wrote that lovely email and contradicted it within 24 hours. Then we spoke a few times and I started to buy into his impotent words that he would do counseling and really wanted to be with me. That's the danger in speaking to him, I start thinking crumbs are feasts.
So do I owe him the "it's really over" clarification?
Nah.
Thank you fallsfall.
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