Posted by lostsailor on August 12, 2003, at 9:09:06
That's a good question.
It is not intentional. I think my posts, in general, have been fewer. I will admit being somewhat tongue tied with you and I am not exactly sure why that is. Trust me, for my one good trait is my honesty, it is nothing personal. If anything I think it’s more self-berating on my part.
Being a smaller part of the population here (e.g., a man--and I even struggle with that term currently due to my "disease"), I feel I have less to say in a way. I have my viewpoints about your situation and have shared them a bit with you. I see you putting your-self thru a cheese grinder and it hurts to see that.
You are "young" (stop, KL:)) and even though you failed your recent exam, I am confidant that you will nail it when you sit for it next time, BUT you can resolve some of this first..
Falls was right about the homeless mans statement. Tabby, I think is right about the "come and get me I’m single” signal and I think you are right about getting help with this whether in a group or a one-on-one setting.
Just because I don’t post, please do not think I am not reading and thinking. I have had many of the same insidious relationship issues as you, but being ever so slightly younger and not as successful as I anticipated ( I never thought I would be on a grandiose scale, but an intrinsic one given the nature of me “work”)
I guess part of me also just likes reading your flowing prose and trying to learn a bit from you.
You know, you could post to me , too , you know…lol. Wait this is a reply to that statement…”self-slap”
((kara))
~tony
!(U)#$(*(*)&%&$)*(()&*@)&*(@)*I#, Aurora---she keeps pulling this I need to write things for my-self, when all she can really do is type her name. Ugg. J
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