Posted by Tabitha on July 20, 2003, at 15:54:49
In reply to Thank you for forgiving me, posted by kara lynne on July 19, 2003, at 1:23:22
Kara, this stuff doesn't negate your moment of strength. Obviously he took it seriously too, and is now putting in some effort to get you back to where you were. Change doesn't happen all at once. Be gentle with yourself.
I can relate though, I was telling my therapist how bad I felt for going back to my last guy after breaking off and telling all my friends I'd broken off. She said not to start worrying til round 10. I found that comforting. We brokeup about 4-5 times before the end. So.... I feel good for getting out in less than 10 rounds! It's all a matter of perspective.