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Re: infuriated and in tears » fallsfall

Posted by Penny on July 10, 2003, at 12:23:43

In reply to Re: infuriated and in tears » Penny, posted by fallsfall on July 9, 2003, at 19:33:43

It seems as if all I do is apologize. It's as though what I say is always wrong, but everything she says is fine fine fine. Mainly because I don't make note of every time she says something that hurts me, but she seems to remember every time I say something to her that she takes offense to.

And she remembers it, and holds on to it, for just the right time to throw it back in my face.

I don't think she does this maliciously, but I also don't think she realizes how those things play over and over in my mind, reinforcing my core beliefs about myself, reinforcing what I grew up hearing from my father.

I guess it is my problem. I guess I am a know-it-all. Certainly enough people have told me so.

So, as I usually do, I will try to vow to keep my mouth shut and my opinions to myself if there is any chance that those things might offend someone.

Because we wouldn't want that.


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