Posted by Dinah on July 1, 2003, at 5:30:30
In reply to Re: I'm too tired to post, posted by slinky on July 1, 2003, at 0:12:29
Slinky, it's good to get some sleep. I always try to imagine my safe place and sleep some when I'm feeling agitated. It helps a lot. Forgetting sleep if I'm lucky.
But please hang on thru the bad feelings. Apart from all else (like we love you, and you are a very special person), no man in the world is worth this kind of hell. Especially a man who doesn't fully appreciate your beauty and kindness.
It is easier to be alone sometimes in any relationship. It's way easier to be alone than to be with someone who hurts us. Slinky, hold out for someone who doesn't hurt you more than the average relationship does. And don't let him win. I can't give you advice on how to get angry. Angry has never been my forte. But how about stubborn? I'm great at stubborn. Just don't let the pain he caused you wear you down. There's enough pain in life as it is. Someone who would cause you more isn't worth feeling pain over. Although I realize it's not a choice. (((slinky)))
Hold on, slinky, and the worst will pass.
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