Posted by Dinah on June 25, 2003, at 5:18:52
In reply to Re: No, you're not., posted by kara lynne on June 25, 2003, at 0:34:03
No, I don't think people can be reprogrammed. But I do think they can make slow and steady progress with some hard work in therapy. Sometimes I actually believe the things my therapist has told me.
Living for the relationship may be programmed into women, but I think that is reprogrammable. There is so much else out there. Is the test you're taking something you *could* be interested in? Do you have any liking for your career at all?
Once the raw pain heals, mayhe this could be one of those watershed moments in life, where you learn to love yourself for all those things that make you you. All the things that others see in you, but that you must discover for yourself. I hope so, for you. If one must suffer, it seems only fair that something useful come of it.
Geesh, I sound like little mary sunshine, and since that's not how I feel, i'll just sign off with the hope that the pain gets less raw soon.
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