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The past is past. You only have now!!!!! » Miller

Posted by bluedog on December 30, 2002, at 10:31:16

In reply to Guilt, Guilty, Guilt, Guilty, Guilt, etc., etc. , posted by Miller on December 30, 2002, at 9:40:23

Don't torture yourself. I have done things so shameful in the past I would not tell anyone.... ever. Sometimes attempts to repent and torturing yourself over past deeds only makes things worse.

If you don't even have the option to repent don't dwell on past misdeeds.

Bad deeds will always have a good chance of being repeated as we are all human, but I'm not sure what you EXACTLY mean about a good chance of the bad deeds being repeated. If you mean that you your bad deed is hurting or offending others, it is impossible to go through life without offending others. You can only do your best to learn from past misdeeds and make your best attempts not to repeat the SAME misdeeds.

If on the other hand you are talking about the sorts of bad deeds that Ted Bundy carried out then you are truly in trouble (PLEASE, PLEASE don't take offence at this comment as I am only using this as an EXTREME example of some bad deeds and I NEVER intentionally intend to offend anyone in my posts) I am sure that the bad deeds you are speaking of are only confirmation that you are human and therefore you are not and can not be perfect:))))

TIME is a GREAT reliever of guilt I've found. Hope this helps some.

Warm regards
bluedog


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