Posted by paxvox2000 on April 23, 2002, at 13:26:58
In reply to Re: Storm Warning, posted by trouble on April 22, 2002, at 23:01:42
Thanks for all your heart-felt responses,and sorry, Mouse, the one thing PSB lacks is spell check, and I type like a chicken hunting for seeds in the yard. Anywhooooo..........for Trouble, my wife's haven,as it were, is to either sleep, study the Bible (and that's an irony I didn't even get into, as she is a Christian as am I) or to go spend money (or just cruise) at Walmart. What drove my actions Sunday, was returning from church to find a message on the phone machine saying " I am going for a ride..to the beach probably...I'll be back sometime tonight...and well...I love you, bye."
I fear that if it were NOT for the children ( we also have a daughter about to turn 19) she might consider the "ultimate" haven for those thinking that there is no way out. I have tried church friends, and non-church friends, but they can only do so much. The trouble, is that my wife can put on the smiley face for a while amongst others, and then do a 180 when she sees me back at home. I have become her target of anger, which I'm sure makes her feel guilty (she HAS to know how things affect me, she sees it). I'm sure she still loves me, but cannot use me as the support I could be. She does not like to talk about problems, ANY problems, and this is a BIG problem.
Guess I'll see what happens the rest of this week, and if her sisters have called like they said they would, then take it from there.
Thanks, ya'll, for your concern.
PAX
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