Posted by Krazy Kat on April 22, 2002, at 22:45:22
In reply to Storm Warning, posted by paxvox2000 on April 22, 2002, at 18:46:27
oh, pax, this makes me so sad. i would say my husband feels similarly (he has some probs, too), except i have agreed to get help - it's just taking awhile. he, however, is reluctant to seek help.
the fact that you went to someone to learn how to deal with it is nothing short of "noble" - really.
is she the type of person who needs ultimatums to understand how serious a situation is? i mean, a drag down, awful argument with comments such as "we may need to seperate for awhile until this gets better"? (i know you're not pro-divorce at all, but my husband used to have to have it Thrown in his face to see a problem).
that's probably not much help, but you do have my sympathy. unfortunately we "difficult folks" seem to be attracted to each other, and that makes life a challenge to say the least.
- kk
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