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Re: My T

Posted by ChrisK on December 4, 2001, at 17:15:31

In reply to My T, posted by akc on December 4, 2001, at 16:18:52

> And she wants me to go to the hospital if I can't keep myself safe.
>

AKC,

I have read your angst over the last few days and although I am not a cutter I have contemplated it many times. I just never had what it took to do it even though I did fail at severe OD's twice. Both times landed me in the hospital and that was the best place for me. There also came a time when I did admit myself again voluntarily.

It may seem like the hospital is not an option because of your work but you would be surprised how good it can work out. Whether you know it or not there are a lot of people you work with who know that you are hurting. They may not know why or how deep it goes but they do know that there is a major problem plagueing you.

It's not going to shock or disappoint anyone you work with if you need to take some time off to get your life in order.

I didn't know what to expect the first time I went in but I felt some relief before going home. After a couple of more trips I started to understand what was expected of me from my treatment and I was able to leave with better feeling of self worth.

A trip to the hospital is not a last resort - feelings of suicide or cutting are last resorts. You are the only one in a position to help yourself and that may mean turning to strangers for help.

I always felt safe in a hospital and I can assure you that they are nothing like you have made them out to be in your mind. They are very pleasant places with nurses who are willing to go out of their way to make sure that you have the best care. They listen and talk and care. They may not have the title of Therapist but they are as good as any therapist you will meet. Time means nothing and your mental health comes first. These are the people I met in my stays.

Don't be afraid to give it a try. It's better than the options you have built up in your mind.

If you don'tpost for the next few days I hope it is because you have taken this option. We'll be here when you geet back and so will your job.

Stay alive with us,
Chris


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