Posted by susan C on July 30, 2001, at 13:35:09
In reply to Re: How can I get over the loss of a loved one? » susan C, posted by Glenn Fagelson on July 29, 2001, at 20:50:02
> > > My girlfriend and I had to break up, for
> > > reasons I won't go into now. We stopped
> > > all connections with each other 5 months
> > > ago. We loved each other very, very much!
> > > My problem is this: I dream about her all
> > > the time when I am asleep. I think about
> > > her everyday; my heart aches for her. Does
> > > anyone have any suggestions as to how I can
> > > get over her?
> > >
> > > Glenn
> > I don't know, Glenn. I however, did that same thing and one day, i was walking through campus (3,000 miles away from my old boy friend) and I realized I was looking for him in the crowd. I was sure he would be there. That somehow he would magically appear. Another situation, I was deeply in love and the fellow dropped me. The sex was so great. When I got together with my now spouse, it wasnt as great, but he is a wonderful person, i thought about it years latter, and realized sex was better than it ever was then. So I got a great relationship, supportive, and sex. So, go figure. How can your memories get stuck on something when your realtime life goes on and you haven't noticed? Just more questions. Sign me confused, too.
>
> Hi Susan,
>
> Thank you for your response! I am a little
> bit confused about what you are trying
> to say to me.
>
> GlennHi Glenn,
I guess that is either just how I write, or just how I respond to your posts. I think I am saying nothing in particular, just sharing experiences from my life that I am reminded of when you ask your question(s). Sometimes I think this board is a stream of consciousness elicitator. And sometimes I don't think I write very well. Just know, no matter what I write, I hope you are ok. My intentions are good even if what I write doesn't make sense.
poster:susan C
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