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Re: Am I just too depressed - Roo

Posted by Kristi on June 18, 2001, at 16:51:39

In reply to Re: Am I just too depressed to committ Kristi, posted by Roo on June 18, 2001, at 8:21:44


Thank you Roo....your post came in just the knick of time. I've been really questioning what I've done.... that really does make me feel a lot better about my decision...., now... if I can just say something to help you!!!! It's so difficult, that I know.... his family becomes yours and vice versa.... all the more difficult. Nothing in this world compares to the pain of a broken heart!!!! I just wish I had the right words for you.... Hang in there, and thanks again.
Kristi


> Kristi--
>
> It's good that you know that about yourself right
> now though. Even though your boyfriend is hurt
> right now, I wish that when my boyfriend had first
> asked me to marry him that I would have thought it
> through more and said "i'm not ready for that right
> now"...I didn't really know that's how I felt until
> I had already said 'yes' and then started feeling so
> anxious and unsure. I caused so much more pain by
> not knowing how I felt and then changing my mind. My
> boyfriend felt like he'd had the rug pulled out from
> under him. I think his family felt betrayed too, because
> they had started looking at me as part of the family.
> I think they still don't trust me, and they probably
> shouldn't. I think you did the right thing by saying
> no, and knowing you weren't ready for that big of a
> committment yet. I know it hurts though. But you
> were brave and stuck to your own inner truth.


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