Posted by Noa on November 4, 2000, at 10:57:16
In reply to Re: Can anyone help with some questions please, posted by pullmarine on November 3, 2000, at 19:31:25
I agree that there are many more choices of meds now than there were then. Plus, that particular hospital's approach may not have been the right one. I would recommend asking around for names of good psychiatrists who are known to be good at respecting patients and working with them collaboratively. Then, interview a couple of them to see if you like them.
The thing about NOT treating this is that there are studies showing that going without treatment can lead to a worsening course of the illness over time. I think that if your husband can feel more in control, like knowing it is his decision, and that consulting a doctor doesn't obligate him to follow that doctor's recommendations, maybe he will be more open to exploring what options he has.
Also, for both of you, and even if he refuses any support or treatment, there are good support networks around the country of people with affective disorders, and for family members. Try looking up:
DRADA (Depression and Related Affective Disorders Association)
and
National Depression Manic Depression Association
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