Posted by FindingMyDesire on June 3, 2009, at 23:28:02
In reply to Re: I want a baby, a better marriage, and a d*ck, posted by horridmonster on June 2, 2009, at 19:24:39
Thanks so much for your post, horridmonster.
"enormous self exploration" is a good reflection!
And yes, my spouse is afraid of that. And we are talking more and more about the fears on both of our parts which seems to help dispel them. As our couple's therapist points out (we have a good one), we keep choosing each other again and again despite the challenges. Which is true. I love her. I just want to integrate more of me and my needs into my life.
I am in my own therapy right now. And yes, it's intense. I'm actually at the "beginning of the middle," whatever that means. I do know it means Major Transference of just about every kind. I'm so in love with her in so many ways... she is excellent so in a way I think this is why I am finding so much of myself. I'm FindingMyDesire.
Thanks again for your thoughts,