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Re: Update PhoenixGirl

Posted by fayeroe on December 28, 2008, at 10:56:25

In reply to Update, posted by PhoenixGirl on December 28, 2008, at 9:04:08

> I totally got over the "love" thing with the married guy. Now I don't know what the hell I was thinking. Thank god I snapped out of that. I think I was vulnerable and wanted someone to take care of me. I had no job and was ill. Now I'm better and I have a job.


Sometimes when something out of the ordinary happens to us, we learn quite a bit about ourselves and others. I bet that you're more at ease with yourself now and others. You made a very mature decision and with some going inward, you are happy and safe now. (safe means within your skin)

Also, there aren't a whole lot of people who haven't had something like this happen in their lives. Even my 80 year old sister was feeling very neglected by her husband and she thought that she had "lost" the ability to be attractive all men. She "flirted" a bit with another man and quickly decided that "I've still got it and I better get the hell out of dodge!"..(she actually wouldn't say "hell out of dodge", that was my take on it.) :-) I've certainly had my share of those moments. (with younger men) :-0 Pat

 

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