Posted by Emmie on December 6, 2008, at 13:36:27
My husband and I have beem married for 23 years. We both have two daughters each from previous relationships. All of our daughters are adults now, and we have many grandchildren. I am 58, he is 61.
I haven't been able to confront my husband about this, or talk about to ANYONE. I'm so devastated, I feel just frozen in disbelief and confusion. I hope you can give me some feedback to help me address this issue and try to heal, because I don't know where to start. Here is what happened:
A couple of weeks ago I woke up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom. My husband was still awake using the computer. It did't worry me much that I've awakened several times before, to see him masturbating, assuming of course, that he's watching the usual naked women adult porn sites. At the point I awoke this time, he was just then returning from the bathroom, but his AOL account page was still on the screen, showing the list of his Favorite Places, websites he frequently visits. As I walked by the computer screen, on the Favorites list I saw these websites: "Young Boys Video", "Daughters and Daddies" and "Daddy Doing Her". Investigating further, a few days later I got up the nerve to check the Temporary Internet Files. There I found cookies for sites named "Sweetest Boy", "Incest dot com" and "Young/OldSex" just to name a few.
I welcome anything that anyone has to say to me here in this forum. After 23 years of marriage I feel I'm living with a stranger. Please help.