Posted by fleeting flutterby on July 28, 2008, at 15:49:22
In reply to lackign impulse control.., posted by karen_kay on July 28, 2008, at 13:05:02
> yuppers, that'sme. i see a challenge, i wnat to face it, head on (don't snicker, i'm not always beign dirty. ok, maybe i was tis time...).
> compromising morales. i have them. and i can always fidn a way to justify, in my head, what i want to do, why i've done it, why it should have been done, on and on and on...<< ---------Well, being totally honest here-- not meaning to offend but, this sounds more like being narcissistic than psychopathic. Only thinking of ones own wants/desires with little regard for loved one.-----
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> i really think i'm a psychopath. or maybe i'm just drivin? or maybe i dislike authority (ie:taking orders from mister kk, as in 'you can not do this or that' which are very FAIR orders, and not outof the ordinary in a marriage.. or are they?<<----My husband will NEVER tell me what I can and can't do nor do I do that to him. We are both adults. Seems this relationship is more on the lines of a parent/child relationship-- unless both of you do this to each other, I guess. I've been told it's important to be equals for a relationship to be happy and healthy.
> yeah, i'm a psychopath. the more he says no, the more i want.<<----this is known as "rebellion" which is quite common in a child/parent type relationship. I don't think you're a psychopath.------
>>what's wrong with me, other than the psychopath part. i've got that figured out. and please, don't suggest therapy. i'll just get a male one, and try to seduce him. besides, we can't afford ti anyway, even with "great" benefits.
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> GRRRRR!!!!<<anyway-- I hope I've not offended you-- if so I do apologize...... my purpose in replying was solely to help.
best to you,
flutterby-mandy
poster:fleeting flutterby
thread:842596
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