Posted by nfc on July 3, 2008, at 7:50:05
In reply to Re: Depression, posted by cherrybomb on July 2, 2008, at 9:54:00
fleeting flutterby gave good advice along the lines that I was wondering about as well. things about finding something in other male friends that you may not be finding in your husband. alot of the stuff that happened to you when you were younger does impact you now as well. first things first is to find a way to help thy self. 2nd is to talk to your husband about your thoughts and needs. bring it up in a way that doesn't put him on the hot seat, u gotta figure that out since u best know him. try and find ways to give back to him and hopefully this can in turn prompt him to give back to you. you can try therapy, count the cost - can get expensive. but this is to sort out any issues you have w/ anything and then go back to the drawing board which is time spent alone pondering and work things out w/ your husband and then onto the rest of the world including your social life. just my 2 cents. sorry if i hit a nerve. take care and wish you the best.