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Getting over a crappy relationship- need advice

Posted by Jimmyboy on November 14, 2007, at 18:12:07

I have never posted over on this part of the site, but I am going through a hard time with a recent break-up.

The girl was the was beautiful girl I have ever seen ( on the outside), fun, wild, crazy, wealthy, appeared to be a real free spirit. Everyone notices her whereever she goes, people just can not be drawn to her. After a few months I quit my job in Illinois as a contractor and moved to another state to be with her.

Immediately began seeing behind her facade, the petty, materialistic and psychologically messed up person that she really was and realized I had made a major mistake.. I tried to stick it out, but it got to where the sight of her made me ill. She was so beautiful and everyon ethat met her thought she was the most amazing person they had ever met. Eventually I went back home for awhile and I caught her lying to me about another man ( whether or not they actually had an affair is up to debated, but there was several weeks of lying to my face involved.)

So I stayed home, didn;t want to have anything to do with her, until she also decided she wanted things over.. now all of a sudden, I am practically obsessed with her and want to call her all the time and "be around" her, evvven though logically I know this is a major dead-end and bad for me.

Why would I all of a sudden want to be with her agian after all of this? Is it my ego, sadness at losing something familiar? Also, any tips on getting over this and moving on would be helpful..

Sorry the post was so long, but just getting it out was helpful to me.






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