Posted by gazo on April 3, 2007, at 23:11:36
In reply to Re: when is it abuse? - gazo » gazo, posted by Kath on April 2, 2007, at 13:53:16
thank you kath.. you obviously put a lot of time into what you said. Why is it important to be able to label it as abuse or not? well, that's hard to answer.. it has something to do with it being a way to establish an anchor point because from the inside of this it is very confusing.. and some of it comes from the deeper issues i have surrounding self worth, etc.
things are a mess. there are some very big obstacles to leaving completely... but the biggest is me.
i have reached a point at which i just don't see real solutions. i can't leave and i can't stay. The solution in between is irreversible. i spend a lot of time thinking about that. i am not in immediate danger. i just spend a lot of time balancing out what to do.
i can't just go. i can't just stay.