Psycho-Babble Psychology | about psychological treatments | Framed
This thread | Show all | Post follow-up | Start new thread | List of forums | Search | FAQ

Re: fake relationships - Meant for RJL

Posted by SLS on August 6, 2013, at 6:59:58

In reply to fake relationships, posted by SLS on August 6, 2013, at 6:58:12

> > its late at night, i can think better....but i've started to learn that i've cut off people i knew in the past, both if they did bad things, or didnt like me.....i just cut them off like i don't know them, but ... thats also how it is currently, i am in relationship but anytime that there is pain that emerged from it, i cut it off....like i never had it at all.....and really thats making me wonder if i can even connect good with people, usally when someone breaks up with a person...it hurts, but in this case, i've played along with stuff....but truely not connecting at all, mainly its protecting from pain, and another its discarding bad memories, quick.
> >
> > the people i am close to......if something bad happens the feeling in the relationship is terminated, disguarding it quick. But that sounds like someone who is fake, i do this to reduce the pain of rejection, its already been done many times....
> >
> > does anyone know what a true, good relationship is? ..i just totally ... cut it off, knife and a wire.....snipp having a relationship can be like work, good work, but me...sometimes i don't want to do work, and leave it and forget it....thats a vary good metahpore, but its not productive, and wasting good relationships that could happen.....
> >
> > i really need to work on relationships...but i've gotta learn who i am inside....
> >
> > right now people that i know view me as not being prodective, no job, but i am ging back to school...but i kinda get the idea....so people who hate me, just say thank you vary much, have wonderful day and bye....
> >
> > but really whats ... your opinion of a relationship?
>
> Fake relationships?
>
> I don't have any immediate answers for you. However, I like the way you approach things. You often do a good job of coming up with your own answers.
>
> What or who are you using as a resource to help guide you? You are obviously willing and able to improve yourself. You are willing to work. This is a good thing.
>
>
> - Scott

.


Some see things as they are and ask why.
I dream of things that never were and ask why not.

- George Bernard Shaw

 

Thread

 

Post a new follow-up

Your message only Include above post


Notify the administrators

They will then review this post with the posting guidelines in mind.

To contact them about something other than this post, please use this form instead.

 

Start a new thread

 
Google
dr-bob.org www
Search options and examples
[amazon] for
in

This thread | Show all | Post follow-up | Start new thread | FAQ
Psycho-Babble Psychology | Framed

poster:SLS thread:1048385
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20130309/msgs/1048405.html