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Re: I don't understand what I'm feeling twilight

Posted by Daisym on May 2, 2010, at 21:35:19

In reply to Re: I don't understand what I'm feeling Daisym, posted by twilight on May 2, 2010, at 14:54:46

We've talked about this in therapy before - my inability to allow him to be happy for me, or be please about something. I want him to be but it rattles me too - like he is going to switch on a dime and suddenly be angry at my happiness. I think the emotional regulation we've been working on is in play here too - you couldn't be too sad or too happy when I was a kid, so I never learned. Anything outside my small, very reserved, very calm zone, feels scary.

And yes - I can't help but feel he is wishing and wishing for me positive conversations with me.

It *is* hard!

 

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