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Re: Longing for Ts kindness

Posted by Helana on December 21, 2009, at 12:20:45

In reply to Re: Longing for Ts kindness, posted by Dewd on December 19, 2009, at 21:02:56

Hi Dewd. I know exactly what you mean about it being so nice to know people understand and care about what youre going through. I have felt so uplifted this past week since Ive started to post know that there are others who know exactly how I feel in certain rescpects. I have talked about this with my mom, sister, best friends, and they all listen and understand but dont have that level of understanding as one who has gone or is going through it.
I agree that although we cant be friends with our T that doesnt make it any less meaningful and less special but it does get very frustrating , sad, and does feel less meaningful that I dont get to show her my love the way I want to and it feels limiting. But I was thinking that I should focus on the way I CAN show her my love instead of the ways I CANT. communication is the highest level of intimacy, that really hit home for me because I do have something wonderful that I was just refusing to see because it was EXACTLY the way I wanted it! By the way you dont know how much youve changed my life and therapy! THANK YOU!!
I have been seeing my T for only two and a half yearsseems like Ive known her forever though!
Ive got my advils herere re re re re readHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAThat was really cute!
I dont know why my T doesnt want to talk about the sudden changesThat is whats so frustrating! I dont mind the change. I see how Ive grown from itand I have an intense desire to keep growing so I would never want to get stuck in a rut with her, but the fact that we cant talk about it gets to melike she cant deal with it and that scares melike she cant deal with me!
I think that everything she did for you came from her heartthank you for that, that meant a lot to me! 
You helped wonderfully Dewd, dont second guess yourselfyou are an amazing person!!
Helena
PsI have a session tonight ;) lol (after two and a half years I still get butterflies EVERYTIME I see her)


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