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Posted by blahblahblah on September 13, 2009, at 18:06:13

In reply to Re: attachments » blahblahblah, posted by Dinah on September 13, 2009, at 10:50:17

Dinah,

Thank you for your reply. i read lots of your replies and you are a very wise woman. How you described being with your T during Katrina is exactly how i am all the time. I feel like i am such a burden. it's ridiculous. even if i read something in the paper that has happened and is horrific, i worry that my t knows the person. then i think if she does i can not tell her bout my problems anymore because i will burden her and they will seem ridiculous.

i do find me and my t have had a very rocky r'ship. i tried to tell her reasons a few months ago why i should stop seeing her. they were all about how i think i annoy her. but she has stuck around for the long haul. she is about 35 years older than me so she is a good stable consistent person. she tells me just to go with the attachment, and knows i need reassurance. i think the more she sticks around, the more comfortable i am coming with it. i'm just sick of getting this feeling off every potential mother figure, but you're right. if i can develop this properly with my t it may stop forever. :)


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