Posted by Nadezda on September 10, 2009, at 15:16:42
In reply to how to say sorry to t, posted by psychmom on September 10, 2009, at 13:17:34
Yes, I have.
The best thing to do is to apologize--or that is, to say what you're feeling about the situation. It's also useful to talk about what really happened--insofar as you both can figure it out-- and what was going on in you (or what you imagined was going on in him).
These conversations have helped my T and me work together more productively. Of course, it takes time and working these issues (whatever they are) through.
Nadezda
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