Posted by Dinah on August 14, 2009, at 20:48:51
In reply to I just wish..., posted by 10derHeart on August 14, 2009, at 17:24:17
(((( 10der ))))
You are so lucky in some ways, yet I understand how hard it can be to be so far from his physical presence. Even though he is good on the phone, and in emails. (I envy that.)
Would it help you any to be able to picture where he is when he isn't in his office? It helps me a lot to know where my therapist is this week. I was able to picture him doing the sort of things I did at the beach. And trying to imagine him doing the things the things I wouldn't do, but that he might. Like shopping at galleries or playing golf or something. So that instead of focusing on the emptiness of where he wasn't, I could put him somewhere where he actually was.
If that makes sense.
poster:Dinah
thread:912133
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