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Re: Suddenly develop Dependent Personality Disorde » Dinah

Posted by garnet71 on July 1, 2009, at 23:50:08

In reply to Re: Suddenly develop Dependent Personality Disorde, posted by Dinah on July 1, 2009, at 23:20:56

I think you explained that well, but i'm just confused. I read about boundaries a while ago, but feel I never understood the concet.

This is where I'm confused--so how does his saying yes/no affect your personal boundaries if you were worried about intruding on his? I think I could use some of that practice too. lol

So how can accepting an answer, like you wrote here, have anything to do with your personal boundaries? What I understand is that boundaries affect action, but it's like you are talking about the result of the action. So (and this likely sounds so stupid to be asking) boundaries have 2 components--action/reaction, as opposed to just action?

"If I said no, then he had asked and I had said no, and he took it in such a way as to demonstrate what accepting a no meant if you had good boundaries."

 

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