Posted by LibraryGirl on January 31, 2009, at 10:14:26
In reply to Still around *possible trigger*, posted by TherapyGirl on January 30, 2009, at 21:19:01
(((((TG)))))
Hang in there, sweetie. I know how much it hurts right now, and it doesn't seem like it will ever end. But it will get better. I never thought I'd be able to say that after feeling how I felt a few years ago, between the depression and losing my T, etc., and truthfully I *still* think of her, it still hurts, but my ending with her was a bad one and left a lot of things unresolved, but it doesn't take up my whole life anymore. The same will be true for you. In time, you'll be able to place your T in a corner of your heart, keep her there with you, and at the same time move on from the hurt. I know these just seem like words now, but just try to trust that they are true. Be gentle with yourself in the meantime.
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