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Re: Grief » DAisym

Posted by sassyfrancesca on December 23, 2008, at 9:34:08

In reply to Grief, posted by DAisym on December 23, 2008, at 2:46:36

Oh (D'Aisy): I know how you feel; I have been grieving for a whole lifetime (no one can tell, LOL); I got a divorce after 31 years of abuse, and then lost my church family (31 years); they voted me out of membership, with my name up on a big screen, followed by the words: "Conduct Unbecoming a Child of God."

So, not only did I lose a marriage, I lost a whole church community.

I grew up in extreme poverty and never knew my father....the list is endless of things to grieve.....in a month I have to tell my tI cannot pay him anymore....I don't know how I will live without him (another abandoment), not to mention I am going to have to live on less than 100 a week for gas, groceries, etc., etc....as a christian I pray all the time for God to bring me a man that he wants me to have.

I did the thing I feared the most (being alone) in getting the divorce.

I hear your pain, sweetie...you sound like an amazing woman.

Hugs and Love, Sassy

www.churchabusepoetrytherapy.com (my faith-based poems), which Elie Wiesel (survivor of Auschwitz) has written to me about; I am humbled and honored. It is amazing how people have been healed through it, but unfortunately, spiritual abuse is a wound which i cannot heal from...over 15,200 hits now.


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