Posted by LadyBug on December 3, 2008, at 11:15:53
In reply to Relationship with your T in your head?, posted by FindingMyDesire on December 3, 2008, at 0:35:11
Oh, I have conversations in my head with my T all the time. I've talked it over with her, she said if we are doing good therapy, this is what's supposed to happen.
And yes, I've had arguments in my mind with her.
I suppose I'll have these conversations with her the rest of my life. Just as I will have conversations with my mother in my head the rest of my life.
I can totally predict what she will say to my comments.
Fantasies? No, and I'll keep it that way. I will admit wondering about her and her spouse though, but not often and it's not in a sick way, more of a loving affectionate way.
It used to be about the first thing that popped into my head when I woke up each day, a conversations with her? And the last thing I'd think about before going to sleep. It was very comforting to me to think of talking to her before going to sleep, especially during a very trying time in my life.
My mind didn't know the difference between real conversations and ones I had in my head.
Good therapy is what this is.
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