Posted by JayMac on October 26, 2008, at 17:44:13
In reply to too curious for my own good, posted by sadlittlegirl on October 26, 2008, at 0:01:52
I can completely relate!!! I posted a thread about wanting to see where my T lives a couple weeks ago. I've also posted (not sure what archieve it's in, but within the past 6 weeks about googling my T.
Here's the link to my thread about wanting to know where my T lives:
I hope it's of some help. I know wanting to know where your T lives and googling them is not exactly the same, but I think they are similar. I experienced a lot of my own shame, doubt, and guilt about googling my T and about finding out where she lives. Since then, I've found out even more information on the web. I disclosed to her that I've googled her and that I've literally gone looking for her house without even knowing her address. It was uncomfortable for me to talk about, but it was nice to hear that she was open to the discussion and she welcomed it. In my case, I google her and feel the urge to see her home because I want to feel connected to her, I want to feel even more attached, I want more of her, I want to know her on a more intimate level. I just want to feel connected. All of this makes for great, but difficult to bring up, discussion.
Just my own experience. Everyone is different. You may have googled your T for a different reason.
Thanks for posting!!!