Posted by LadyBug on October 22, 2008, at 14:29:37
In reply to Update, posted by Morgan79 on October 22, 2008, at 12:31:44
I followed your post from the past few days. You are brave for coming here and opening up about it. I'm sure neither of you intended for this to happen. One thing I see you have going for you is the fact you are both single. You aren't dragging any spouses through the mud. You met in unusual circumstances, but it did happen. You both recognize what you are up against. Maybe he is your soul mate? I know it must seem painful. I knew a couple once that was seeing a T for marriage counseling. The wife fell in love with the T and left her husband for the T. They got married and were very happy!!!
So, even though to the world what has happened may have been against ethics, it may be that the two of you can move through this and come out on the other side with a relationship full of happiness.
By the way, welcome to Babble. I have been around for about a year and a half and I've been supported by the best! You can always find someone who understands what you are going through.
Good luck today. Let us know what happens. Everyone deserves to be happy but not when it comes with a high price tag. Maybe things can work for you. Do you want to be with him?
I'm sure you will figure out between the two of you what will be best for the situation. If it's together, then you will work it out somehow.